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Originally Posted by divine1966
I am sorry to hear that. It sounds painful. Could you clarify a bit please, is he just in need of space for a day and wants to have time alone tonight or perhaps even a couple of days of longer? I personally like significant amount of space in relationships and it’s often bothersome to others as they don’t need as much space. But I communicate that and am up front about it. How long does he go without communication and how much space does he need? How long you’ve been together and was he like this from the beginning? Is this recent?
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This has been recent. He never clarifies anything, which makes this so difficult, so I have to be playing the guessing game. He never tells me how much space he needs or anything, he simply just disappears which causes me to have a lot of anxiety. I don't mind that he needs space at all but when he doesn't communicate with me at all, it makes things very difficult for me. He's very bad with letting me know what's going on and how much time he needs. I've been very patient with him, but it's also affecting my mental health because I always end up worrying about him and having an anxiety attack.