I don’t care what people want to do or say at my funeral. I’ll be dead. We don’t cremate. But if they want to, what am I going to do about? I won’t be here

I think it’s wise to buy a spot. My mom passed two years back and my dad bought burial place next to hers. So he has that done. My dad wanted some weird stuff on moms tomb stone. Took us awhile to agree on the headstone. It’s pretty. We worry dad would want us to put something crazy on his tomb stone. Omg. Hope not.