I know I was not as prepared with dad's memorial and that made it even harder. The songs......I had no idea what songs he would have wanted played, then there was the gathering of the photos to make a slide show in the reception room. It would have been a little easier if all this had been done prior to the memorial service. Thank goodness his business had a large picture of him that we used at the service. I need to get to working on this myself. I talk about it but really don't have that much done