Your feelings and situations are very similar to mines. Like you I love my husband to death and he simply does not. I was the one who decided to move us for a job. We have both prospered here though. Even with the cheating and a child I still think the marriage is worth saving. I can do no right when it comes to him. I feel like I’m forced to make decisions alone and critiqued for the decisions I make. When i say forced I mean he isn’t in the home so he doesn’t feel he has the right to make decisions in my house but often talks about the choices I’ve made or says he would do differently. I often feel like I’m inadequate although I’m very smart and capable. Sometimes I want to let go to not have to deal with it as much. I’ve never voiced that before. I’m very confused.