So whether my son goes to grad school or not he's moving out in a year and a half. He was offered my nephew's place to buy when they move. I think it's a bit expensive but H thinks it's a good idea even if it's not used while he's away at school. I'm not so sure. I mean it's a lot and needs work. I'd rather him focus on getting a car, job, school before getting a place. It's not like we can cover his fee's too. I'm trying to remind myself we won't know his finances until October-ish. If he does go away to grad school who's to say he'll move back here.

Everyone else is trying to get him to grow up/move out. I just want him to network. Go to game jams, drive, explore, do internships, volunteer, go away to school. H will help him get this place but not help pay for grad school but wants him to go to grad school. I just don't get it. I don't know how to put my thoughts together. to make a good argument. I hope my son doesn't feel my husband's kicking him out. I just don't get my husband's reasoning.