My mother picked out her pictures for the slide show. and that helped. I'll probably just want a graveside service--but time will tell. It partly depends on what my family wants. I doubt I'll have a big crowd,

I have a living will, but it depends on how old I am. Right now (At age 66), I'd like CPR. I have things I want to do.

And yes, this topic could be triggering--if thought about in a certain way. I'm assuming we're talking about a natural death.