So Sorry about what happened! Unfortunately things like this can happen, especially if we keep it withing ourselves i think. i Hope and Pray that you and your dad will be able to make amend and make Peace. Keep us updated if you can and want to. Please take care of yourself and try to do something nice for yourself. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @puzzclar, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!