I understand how hard things have been for you. But I think putting things in perspective could help. I don’t know that seeing your life is ruined is necessarily the case. I recommend that you look for the blessings because there’s always a blessing somehow.
I can understand how you feel lonely and upset that your marriages just didn’t work out or that you are not romantically linked to anybody now. Did you say you have two children or one ? I think it’s more important to be grateful for the kid(s) you have rather than worry about the ones you didn’t have. You’ve mentioned that financially you struggle. If you had more children you’d have even more struggles. I also recall how you have been involved in the last few years with men you took advantage of you or were not nice to you. These men are wrong. I think it’s important for you to stay focused on your financial goals and to stay independent. I think dwelling on the past and wishing things could have been different isn’t healthy.
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