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Mar 10, 2021, 05:36 AM
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Member Since: Dec 2018
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 6,008
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Originally Posted by BetrayedGamer
I worry about a fight for the house. She's told me she wants to agree to a settlement outside of lawyers, but I want to be prepared.
Does any of this matter when the house becomes a fight:
1. She has a kid, I just have dogs.
2. The divorce is 100percent her choice. She has refused to work on things, and has refused numerous attempts requesting to go to a Marriage counselor.
3. I get proof that she's having an emotional affair online.
FYI (and I know it's a question) there is no history of domestic violence. I've never laid a hand on her. I've never broken anything in the house out of anger. At worse I've raised my voice.
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If you really think it’s that close to the end you need a lawyer. I don’t care what she says about being fair and keeping lawyers out of it many times the other person in a marriage says that and then they hire their own lawyer and screw you over anyway
Do you think it’s possible she’s addicted to online/outside contact due to her gaming addiction? Sometimes we can take some things out of an online relationship and turn it into a romantic fantasy that has no basis in reality.
Is this an online affair? Is it an emotional affair? Or is it a weird friendship?
Who’s house is it? Are you both on the mortgage or rental agreement?
How are the finances divided? Do you both contribute equally? Or does one person carry the financial burden more ?
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