I posed the question like that to him. After two days of debate with myself about him giving up a great opportunity and running numbers w trailer, without trailer, on campus, online, and everything in between. What we can help with and how we can help.
He feels just keeping his MH team is worth it. Then you have his friends and family. If he's able to get a job between now and then. The lack or cost of car on campus. He doesn't like change anyway. He's been with his therapist over 2 years and finally on meds that help. He doesn't want anyone messing with them. So he chose YES. Now if he regrets it later we'll see.
I still would like others opinions as this will probably be an ongoing conversation.
Now the trailer issue!

but that's not BP related.
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Daughter- mood disorder+
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