I've been called cynical since I remember, but I also cry much less than the people who called me like that. It's all conditional. People are around you when it suits them. One day you may be a little bit too successful, or the opposite, and they're gone. They may meet someone who makes them feel better about themselves - they're gone. They may step into more prestigious social circles than the ones you're in - they're gone.
It's all conditional. I think the best way to proceed is to let go of any expectations and just seek bright moments together for as long as they're around. I don't believe in meaningful friendship or love. I do believe in those little unique times that give sense to that life of ours.
I dunno who said it, but it's so damn accurate... it's not about friendship, but rather love... to all guys out there who believe they found the one and there is no one else like that...
"She's not yours, it's just your turn". That's real life. Cheers!