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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
As we get older and develop our own lives away from family, we can start to see our parents in a different light. It sounds like your mother is a very self centered person. And you are beginning to see your parents in a different light, this can happen and this is when it's important to establish boundaries in that you are no longer a child under their control, you have a right to live your own life.
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There is my issue, boundaries and their control because they are given it too often and when they had non with me they used tactics to get some and like a child I acted out. I see the issues, but the problems are mine to carry so they don't have the burden of admitting their mistakes.