Yes he is an adult. I don't give my opinion, I'm actually really bad at saying anything other then it's your choice. We won't be helping him financially (anything we can we will do for him but financially we're unable to help much) so it really is his choice. I'm researching to ease myself and give him information when he asks. I'm not trying to make him go one way or another because all paths at this point are valid paths. There's no lose in this situation. He often complains that he wants my opinion and I wont give it to him. The only advice I've given is that he may want to apply to internships for the summer to save up more money no matter what he chooses and he may want his license.