Ah perhaps pollyanna is the right word then. Not so much that I pretend everything is wonderful, but that I feel the same exact way - "can't we all just get along?" I'm going to have to stay away from facebook again there's so much dang hatred being spewed among my friends. Or maybe I'll just get rid of it entirely, I mean almost all of my friends on there are people that I re-connected with after years of not being in touch, so you know, maybe we fell out of touch for a reason and I need to accept that. Life would probably be simpler. I don't text or call or see in real life most of them (except some I have visited when I've been back in the midwest but that's been a couple years now). Well there's one that we text occasionally. But she's not one of those being hateful. I need to declutter not just my house, but my entire life.