i agree with the other wise and wonderful posters about disclosing your own issues if you feel like it'd make your workplace more comfortable. i'd suggest to Reflect on whether or not you think that is the case. i Hope and Pray that things will improve soon for everyone. i don't think you'd be asking for charity so try to see if there is a social worker or someone else you can contact. Please do not give up. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @The Madcap, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!