Yeah nice post Open Eyes, but you are wrong on all accounts.

Watching someone you love lose themselves to addiction is heartbreaking (and yes, video gaming can be an addiction, look it up). It can be just as debilitating as someone on drugs, alcohol, or losing themseIf to Alzheimers. If it were simply a matter of needing an escape from the rest of us during the pandemic, then she could have balanced it out with the needs of her family, the needs of her husband. Instead she shut us all out, day after day, spending time in her video game with these horny guys who "make her feel important" while her daughters grades suffer, her discipline is out the window (she stopped doing all chores, her bathroom and room are disasters). I still don't know if the guy she texts about 100 times a day when she's not chatting with him are a romantic involvement or not yet. I've contacted a divorce lawyer to be prepared, yet I won't file right away as I hold out some hope. But her behavior, her emotion abandonment to both me and her daughter are NOT ok nor justified. Good try.