Well, if you adopt such a macho, posturing way (spreading legs, taking space, staring at people etc.) is it any wonder girls won't want to have anything to do with you?

What you call your 'silent prophet mode' can be read as someone with a big ego or on a power trip and disrespectful.

Your non-verbal attitude is very off-putting. If you want to attract people to you, be open and humble. Not domineering.