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Old Mar 13, 2021, 04:04 PM
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight View Post
It's interesting how this seems to be a pretty common experience with T's during the pandemic. I do want to mention something related to this that my T said when I expressed concerns a couple months ago about his changing once things return more to normal.

He said that it's not like he's just going to revert back to the exact same T/person he was back then. Like flipping a switch or something. That he'll likely be more something in between maybe.

And I imagine this will be the case with most T's, that they won't completely switch back to how they were. Plus we've seen different sides to them now, so we won't view them the same (like, I can't un-know that Dr. T has a dog and cat and what they look like or how he looked petting the fluffy white dog. Or how he looks wearing a hoodie. Or what some of the art in his house looks like), so I think that could also make a difference.
You have nailed it! That is my worry (in bold) i.e. T flipping a switch and I will 'lose' the perceived closeness as T does a complete 180.

Thank you LT for mentioning what your T said. It *is* true, I/we can't un-know the things we came to know about them. Thank you. Reading your message injected a dose of reassurance here..
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Thanks for this!
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