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Originally Posted by Buffy01
I’m sorry that your friend is pulling you down. I wonder if he know what this is doing to you? Maybe talking negative is normal for him and he doesn’t realize how it is affecting everyone else around him.
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I'm not sure if he's aware. I've told him; and there were many times he and I had split up. I was the one to split up with him and told him why or what he does to me to make me feel bad. He's very good at giving out criticisms but not good at receiving it for himself. I notice lately that he seems more depressed than before, even though he tells me that he's fine.
It's very hard to let go of an only friend I have. The time before this time that we split up, it was very nasty. But later he tells me that he misses me a whole lot. I don't know why since he seems to have a fairly good amount of other friends. It's amazing to me on how people who do not seem likable can do pretty well with having friends. Recently I called him because I was in a bike accident. I recalled that he was in one and I wanted to know how he handle it. He was very helpful to me about it. But then we got back together and it went pretty good. Afterwards, it's back to the old crap again.