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really, the whole interchange only took a couple of minutes, then on we went to something else. I find it amazing I could express my hurt and anger, we could deal with it, and then move on, just as if this is as common an occurrence as the sun rising. It was as if I do this all the time and it is easy and normal. This is sunny? Does it take a year and a half of bonding with someone and developing trust to be able to easily tell them you are hurt and angry? I don't know, but I am happy to have this, at least for a short while, with one person in my life.

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Yes, I think it does take the time and bonding and trust... and the knowledge and feeling that it's safe... to be able to do what you did with your anger: let it be seen and heard. Even though this was small in terms of time spent in session, I think it's tremendous growth for you.

I'm so sorry you will be losing your job; may this be a great opportunity in disguise