So Sorry about what is happening. i am not sure if i would consider it cheating but it does seem like you were (unintentionally?) lying even if sometimes by omission. In any case i don't think it is necessarely a deal-breaker but it does depend on how your boyfriend reacts to this. i Hope and Pray that things will improve soon. Make him understand certainly that you want things to work out between you two if that is true. Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @blubbbrabbel, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!