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Old Mar 14, 2021, 09:30 AM
blubbbrabbel blubbbrabbel is offline
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
This is ridiculous. Your past relationships no matter right now as long as you aren’t currently cheating. The fact that some ex made an attempt to contact you isn’t infidelity and I don’t see why you are obligated to disclose to your boyfriend that someone contacted you. What’s the big deal. He sounds controlling
Thanks for your reply! I agree that some parts of it sound controlling. At the same time, he would never say: "You cant meet person xy"... Or anything of the sort.
The point is, I accepted this kind of behaviour in the past. I see that he didnt do it to consciously control or manipiulate. But because he was hurting. I understand because I did stupid things, when I was hurting.