Since I'm "old," I'm kind of old school where tattoos are concerned; I would never get one. I understand, however, that in the last decade or so tattoos have become increasingly popular, & I appreciate the fact that many should be classified more as "body art." I know from talking to people that tatts fade as time passes, & you need to get them inked again. Also, I sometimes wonder if younger people realize what aging can do to one's body! Skin stretches & wrinkles...which might play hell with one's tatts over time!

Having discussed some practical things, I'd like to emphasize that I'm not one of those "get off my lawn" old guys. I wore my hair long & rocked some ridiculous styles as a young man. The older generation looked down on us for doing so. It seems each generation has it's own thing, & tatts are a big part of youth culture these days. I accept & respect that.

Now, to your original point...I'd suggest something that is more "body art" rather than something you'd see on Popeye's arms. One of the most touching tatts I've ever seem is the infinity symbol. Apparently it signifies surviving a suicide attempt. I feel a particular closeness to people when I see one of those tatts. It's kind of like wearing one's heart on their sleeves. Honest.

Good luck shopping around. I hope you & your daughter can find something that appeals to both of you. Oh...& thanks for sharing your story with us. You've come a long way from the lost & abused 18-year-old you once were! Teaching is a noble profession...you can pass your hope & wisdom on.