just to reitterate a bit .. my hubby and i had the best thing going between us ever for 25 yrs we had the most fantastic relationship of all get out.
somehow or another a tidbit of my past came to light and we just about called it quits because of it. 25 yrs of bliss shattered into dust and gone with the wind.
it took patience and a lot of work on both our parts to get regrouped enough to patch things up & carry on ...
fast fwrd to 15 yrs later & in our 40th yr together..... ... the week before my husband died ... he brought it up and threw it at me during a little tift we had going right then ..
so yea... i know what im talking about to be saying what i saying