I texted my exTs wife just out of curiosity to see if there was a problem with seeing me. I am just curious to see if she would consider seeing me but i read her website and she is the woman i grunted at when she said Hello to me on a day i wasnt feeling well and was a bit dissociative so i am not really sure this happened or if i imagined it. Anyway her website threw up a few things i was uncomfortable with. Also i dont know how ethical this is.