Dear JulieEstelle,

Welcome to the Forums. It is very nice to meet you.

I wish I had some insight that would be helpful to you in the situation you describe. You sound like a very caring and compassionate person. Hopefully others here with more relationship experience and depression experience will see your post and respond to it with things that are truly helpful to you. I hope things work out for the very best for both of you!

Sincerely yours, Yao Wen