wounded1

I think you are totally right here. You have to think of you, this new baby and your other children first. If that means you stick around and be civil roommates with your husband for while then be it. That is all you can do at this point. (I am in a similar situation myself, but I only have one son who is almost five, so I could probably leave easier, but it's never really easy for many reasons right?)

I think its great you have many friends to turn to in times of need and support, but they are only living outside and you know more than anyone what it right. Just concentrate on your health and the health of the new baby for now, and when the time comes that you feel comfortable moving on....do it then.
I wish you much much luck and enjoy this time you have with you new baby and your kids. As much as you would like to have things right with your hubby.....your children will be the light in your life FOREVER!!!