I wonder if it’s a “supportive chat” she feels like chatting about dog or other stuff. My former t used to tell me about vacations she went on and how long she’d be gone. It didn’t bother me. I think in Saras situation if it’s upsetting, it might be better not to know why she took a day off. But it’s also important to figure out why Sara is upset. Sometimes “why” we are upset is important. Change of plan or other reasons