Thanks. Yes, I fully agree on the importance of the reason and the "why" in this situation. My counselor would though never engage in such a conversation nor would she be able to dig deeper into why I felt like this when she cancelled our session.
Other times when I´ve expressed disappointment she just pretended like nothing happened the next time I saw her. One time I also cancelled my session and told her how I felt but when we met in person, she said nothing and she didn´t comment when I told her we could talk about what happened.
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Originally Posted by divine1966
I wonder if it’s a “supportive chat” she feels like chatting about dog or other stuff. My former t used to tell me about vacations she went on and how long she’d be gone. It didn’t bother me. I think in Saras situation if it’s upsetting, it might be better not to know why she took a day off. But it’s also important to figure out why Sara is upset. Sometimes “why” we are upset is important. Change of plan or other reasons
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