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Originally Posted by Rive.
You have nailed it! That is my worry (in bold) i.e. T flipping a switch and I will 'lose' the perceived closeness as T does a complete 180.
Thank you LT  for mentioning what your T said. It *is* true, I/we can't un-know the things we came to know about them. Thank you. Reading your message injected a dose of reassurance here.. |
The only things I now know about T that I didn't before we went online are: her home office is messy, and she got married this summer.
But today I suggested that I could now, since we are talking about retirement and termination, I could ask her things I never dared ask her before, and she might reply.