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Originally Posted by bpforever1
Lol, thank you! But, I found him on the dating app looking for other women which is his right. However, I don't need him! So, I got rid of all the user and abusers in my life and feel a whole lot better. I have no luck with men, but am doing well despite this. I will be ok. I am going to focus on myself and work on myself. I think I'm better off alone and will probably stay this way for awhile, at least.
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This is the guy you met once? Would you expect someone to delete or deactivate their profile because you went on one date? If you "found" him on the dating app looking for other women - you were on the app as well??? This does not make him a user or abuser.
Of course it's your choice if you want to cut contact. But you're still blaming men instead of looking at your own behaviour and attitude. You have said the EXACT same thing atter cutting off contact with other men. There is a very obvious pattern here.