i agree with the other wise and wonderful posters. Just give him some space and contact him about once a week like he explicitly asked. i think that should be Ok, after all he is the one who said that and if he is bothering he can always say so. If you want to be sure you can explicitly ask him if it is ok for you to do that. i Hope and Pray that things will improve soon! Hugs! Sending many safe, warm huygs to BOTH you, @JulieEstelle, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!