So Sorry that things are being difficult! i agree with the other wise and wonderful posters that these may prove to be difficult times for some of the couples. Perhaps try to talk about this peacefully with him and make him understand that this behavior isn't letting you work well. i Hope and Pray that you'll both be able to reach some sort agreement and stop some of the stress at least. Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @hvert, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!