I should add I meant no criticism of the woman who shared that with you, I'm sure she had no intention of causing harm. She probably just felt safe with you, and shared without thinking.

I've no doubt that I've over-shared in situations like that -my filters and judgement can be way off when I'm ill. And I've probably, in hindsight left a few people emotionally and mentally reeling in my time

I'm grateful for the trigger warning and hide text features on this forum, and the ability to delete my posts, that's for sure.