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Originally Posted by ArtieTheSequal
I'm sorry you struggle with this self doubt thing too.  It's weird that in my family, of my siblings, I'm the only one that struggles with this to such a degree. I mean we all grew up in the same environment, and I'm the oldest, but I am the only one that's still in therapy (well one sister never went but my other sister and brother both did). Maybe that's why. Because I'm the oldest and was in it the longest. |
I think so yeah. You were in it the longest. I'm the 3rd of 4 but was in it the abusive environment longest due to factors such as gender. Same environment can affect each sibling very differently for sure.
I'm the only one still in therapy too and I suppose I see it as healing myself because I can't force my siblings to want to heal. Some people need more time in therapy, especially when it's deep work.