Feel free to message me; long story short:

My wife and I met on "fling" terms but she got pregnant on our first date. I never loved nor wanted to marry her. She was emotionally abusive and low key crazy. I did not trust her not to get back with her abusive ex and become an alcoholic like she used to be. I felt like my only option for my kid(s) was to marry her. I'm military, and she's a woman (obviously), so both of those are in her favor. It's been 3 years now, I have orders overseas, not sure if I want to live with her another 4+ years, but again she's a civilian/woman, and I'll be overseas... I'll update this post more in a bit.