@lightly toasted: Thanks for sharing your story and no worries about hijacking my thread, i see the relevance. There's a woman in my group who dresses inappropriately so i kind of know where you're coming from, tho of course she does not strip naked. I would have been speechless too. I know what you mean about the upset passing the day after, as mine has, mostly, tho like you i feel sick to my stomach when i recall the event. I guess with new technology comes new misbehaviors. There aren't the inhibitions like in a live event. ZOOM and telephone support have expanded the COVID world, but it comes at a cost.

Now that some time has passed i'm mostly glad that that woman confided in me. It was a shocker but i feel it somehow enriched me as a person to have shared it with her. It stirred up a lot of feelings but it's good for me to feel compassion and to be even marginally supportive which i have such a hard time with. I've felt numb all Winter so it's almost a relief to have feelings, even if it's just negative confusion. I just feel it expanded my horizons.