He hasn’t blocked me from there the last time I checked anyway.....but at the very beginning of therapy years ago I added my therapist on Facebook. I didn’t know they weren’t allowed to have connections to their clients like that. I felt sure he would accept my friend request (he didn’t of course). Annoyingly he didn’t bring it up in session so I asked him why...he said he had too much personal stuff on there.

That was when I realised that other people had real families and things that they wanted to hide from me. I am not connected to my family at all on Facebook so this wasn’t obvious to me. It felt horrible. But then I was glad because I really don’t want to see updates on how happy he is in his marriage etc, it would make me feel like such a loser and an outsider.