I am having recurring conflicts with my wife. I need some advice. The issue is I started talking to a my high school friend 3 years ago . She contacted me after several decades. I used to love her but I never expressed my feelings to her. Both me and my high school friends have expressed love to each other. But we both dont want to leave our families as it will have impact on our children's and of course spouses.

Now I want to stay in touch with her for rest of my life. But my wife is not comfortable with it and she is asking me to cut down all links to my high school friend and sho evidence of that. We keep fighting every week almost after she heard me talking to my high school friend. I dont know what to do.