Dear pram1969,

Hi and welcome to the Forums. It is very nice to meet you. I'm so very sorry you are in the unhappy situation you describe. Wish I knew what to advise but I have never been good at relationships and am really the last person on earth to give advice. Hopefully others here with more experience, knowledge, insight and wisdom will see your post and respond to it with something really helpful to you. I am so sorry I could not be helpful to you in this but I hope that things will work out for the best.

Sincerely yours, Yao Wen