My partner & I have been together 18 years & trust each other 100%. For the record, I'll be 60 in June. Two years ago, I got in touch with a woman I was with in high school (we lost our virginity to each other). Despite the trust my current partner & I share, there's such a thing as sharing too much, IMO. You might have crossed that line...or perhaps I'm just kidding myself.

The woman I contacted is married with children, & there's nothing remotely romantic about our correspondence (we only email once every few months). Something about renewing contact with this old lover takes me back to my youth...nothing more. High school is ancient history...as is that realtionship. Catching up is no sin, IMO. There's absolutely no danger anything would come of our renewed correspondence. If you can say the same, I would argue that your contact is innocent enough.

P.S. I just read your post again. Since you two have professed love, we might be in very different situations. Be very careful. I'm sure you don't want to lose your marriage over this.