i likely wouldn't like that to happen but if i knew my partner already had anxiety issues i wouldn't be too surprised about the panic attack she has! i agree with the wise and wonderful TunedOut. It does seems like he is being honest and although the panic attack was unfortunate i don't think he was something he had a lot of control over. As long as he keeps working on it i think you may be able to trust him especially since 5 years of Marriage does seem enough to build some sort of bond. Did you two have any other major problems in your Marriage? In any case congratulations on your pregnancy and i wish you BOTH the best of Luck! Sending many Safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Lostpossum, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, Ok?!