I am having a hard time sorting out so much stuff. I bet it is awful for you.

There are times where you just have to have someone else take care of complicated messes to be sure it is done right and to insulate you. Do you have an attorney? I think you need one, if you don't. If you do, make them take care of all this crap from your ex.

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