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No one ever did, i was just a mistake, a bad egg, no one needs me, i am trying so hard to make it too 4 so i can leave work and go see my Pdoc.
But no one really fing cares, yea im sure there are a few that do, but right now my self image is so low i can not see anything.

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<font color="purple">Awww purplebutterfly!!! What if I want you around? I made the purple just for you!! Hey check it out though--it's not so bad. I wasn't "planned"--and for many years growing up, thought I wasn't "wanted."
I know now though that it's a little different than what I thought. Even so, even if what you say is true (which is impossible, because a nasty generalization that includes EVERYBODY IN THE WORLD doesn't count and is a cognitive distortion), let's say they don't want you--- who cares? Is someone liking or not liking you a pre-requisite for happiness or self-worth? I think not! What about orphans? They WEREN'T wanted, and yet they still manage to find happiness and self-worth and meaning, to their lives. It's a good thing that we don't give into every silly emotion we have, isn't it? </font>