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Originally Posted by Lostpossum
How would you feel/react if you had an unexpected pregnancy 5 years into a relationship then upon announcing it to your boyfriend, who has anxiety issues, he has a panic attack about finances and figuring everything out during it considering you both were unemployed, living at your seperate parents? He shares he doesnt know if he is ready to be a father but he will do whatever he can to make it work.
Then once he calmed down, he wrote you a letter apologizing about the panic attack and explains his panic, then wants to support you and figure everything out.
How would you react/feel about him panicking to this situation?
Would you feel like he does not love you or does not want to be with you?
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Whatever this was, it is over. There is no gain from picking apart what went wrong.
What you need to do is get a job, any job, and fill part of your day with work or some other activity. Move into your own place. If you can have a 5-year-long relationship you can do those things.