If your T isn't emotionally mature, then you have to leave and find someone that is. Its a waste of your time to stick with someone like that, there is nothing to be gained long term. I remember a counsellor telling me when i was in treatment and had been having 1 -1 with another counsellor and 6months on was in as much the same state as I was when I started, he said, "you know counselling/therapy industry can attrack very sick people" and he wasn't talking about the clients.