No, they're not being good friends. I'm starting to get a bad feeling about them both. I've had those feelings with one of them for a long time due to other things that I mentioned on here like feeling judged for being overweight. Anyways, one friend who doesn't know them told me last night that I'm to "needy' and that if I say anything to those other friends, that I'll just end up pushing them away.

She also said that I'm 'entitled' and that I get upset when I don't get my own way. I disagree as all I want is to be respected and being ignored is rude. They could easily say no if they didn't want to go out. This happened twice already, so it's not just one of those times of where they forgot to respond probably.

I don't think that I'm 'needy' for wanting a direct answer and that I don't like being ignored. No one does. She is a very independent person who seems to have lots of friends, so she doesn't get that. I've noticed a patter with independent types, they're distant and they're used to moving on easily.

I'm not like that. I'm a good friend and I wouldn't this to other people, so it upsets me when I get treated unfairly. I think that I will have a talk with them soon as if I don't, this b.s rudeness will continue. I'll be direct but polite about things. I'll used I feel statements.

It's to bad that my student therapist is now on Spring Break. She'd tell me that this is invalidating and frustrating like she normally does. She doesn't see me as being needy thankfully.