I wholeheartedly agree with Rose76.


These "friends" are anything but. If they wanted to spend time with you they would make the time to do so.


I have lost a few friends over the years, some due to getting divorced years ago and some due to moving away from home. I come back to see the ones that amicably stay in touch. If it's one-sided, I back off.


If you feel must confront, be ready for a bit of pain. I have done this before myself and it hurt. I didn't agree with her either, but I accepted the demise of the friendship and moved on.


Stay to true to yourself, and to heck with them. Don't hang on to people who don't try, because you could spending quality time with someone who does.