I'm so sorry that people who were supposed to be your friends said such hurtful and insulting things. That can be painful if they were long-term friends.

I have been told that I am too sensitive and take things too personally. At the time, it was very invalidating. Thinking back on it now that time is passed, I realize the other person was a more self centered person than I thought at the time. It was said in a condescending and cruel way, and now I am so glad that person is no longer in my life.

I'm sorry for the hurt you are feeling. You deserve better!