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Originally Posted by Tiff0
After 7 years today I didn't myself lost and drained. In 1 week I found out that my husband has a porn addiction and he has been sending his ex money. I feel like my life has been turned upside down, I feel disgusting and like I have been married to a stranger. How do you deal with the self blame?
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I found out the same thing about my husband almost 2 years ago. He was using porn to cope with stress and it ended up getting him into legal trouble. I blamed myself as well. So I truly understand. The problem with porn addiction and any addiction is they get so good at hiding. There was no way you would have been able to know “who he was” this in no way is your fault and all I can say is eventually when the emotions calm after finding out such a terrible thing yo will be able to see that this is not a fault of yours but his. Also therapy really helped me with those feelings. So don’t be afraid to reach out